Tch Chemotherapy

Basically my fathers daughter of the family is worthless. They are independent spirits and bad things often absorbed in their home.
My daughter is shy of 2 months cpl and saw her about 5 times in his life and they live app. 7 minutes. The last time they saw him was at his 1st B-day, nearly 10 months. I'm just sick over this. my family is crazy about her and see all the time. My grandfather was very close which also died in January, but before that would visit almost every day (unless I visited him, of course), even on his days of chemotherapy and radiotherapy. In laws have never bought anything except him on his b-day and although this is not the price that counts is the thought that encapsulates a year and children in a gift Walmart bag?
Anyway my b / f think they are wrong and said that on Halloween we are her to bring her parents .. I said no, they can come here (I've always said, they can come here at any time), but we will not go ... (It happened when my daughter was 3 months old, his family was belligerent drunk, ended up firing a gun and his father called ab * tch my daughter because she got fussy ..) is just an ongoing fight between my b / f and me ... What do you moms think of all this? There is no wrong answer, I just want opinions. My daughter is a big child, she does not deserve this sh * t.

he wants to put in a situation where most adults present drunk and violent!?!

If I visited a house and they acted like you describe they would be forever removed my list of visits, my sister is an addict and violent I threatened to call for drug dogs before leaving anywhere near my son if I even suspect that it is under the influence. If people are known alcoholic I make them do a breathalyzer test before letting them near my son.

Honestly, if it were me, I'd totally forgotten. But since your b / f wants them to be included, I stick to my guns do not go to their house. They can go to yours. Be firm and explain why you can not go. After calling it a ******, which would have been the end of it for me .... In fact, I would have gone off. A girl called my niece once, and she was only 6 and I went nuts over it.

Wow I can only hope for you that your boyfriend will come one day. If I were you, I would like to organize something else, where the in-laws are not included.

Good job it's not a boyfriend and a husband. Do not marry a guy who thinks it is normal for someone to call a toddler a *****. Ditch him and you ditch the family too, given the way they are apparently uninterested in being grandparents.

Of course, your daughter is a good guy. Unfortunately, it seems that his father is not so hot, though. While agreeing with his family shenanigans: "I guarantee he'll have a lot of his own, so what follows.

Do not Go there at all - Well, I wouldnt, stuff that!

I'm the opposite, my parents are separated and they both live in different cities, but they saw my son prob 3 times (nearly one)

my in-laws are crazy about my son, they get lots of press and watch seven hours a week while i work - My son does not even know who his other grandparents which is sad

Now I have learned not to worry about the family that does not bother to care about us if they Can not be bothered to see my son, then they arent worth knowing

It is a difficult situation. Obviously, your bf doesn't see his fam in the same way you do. I understand. We lived with my DSL up and kicked WIRE DD because I think I have an attitude and respects DONT. Well, no picnic either hes. But DH was torn because he loves his family and does not see quites bad.